We Found a Hat

Reach for this book when you notice your child struggling with the internal tension of wanting what a friend has, or when they are learning that some things are only fun if everyone can participate. It is a quiet, masterful exploration of the 'fairness' dilemma through the eyes of two turtles who find a single hat that looks good on both of them. The story moves through three distinct acts: finding the hat, deciding to leave it behind, and the dream of a world where everyone gets what they want. It focuses on the emotional themes of loyalty and the silent choices we make to preserve our closest relationships. While the vocabulary is accessible for preschoolers, the psychological depth makes it a perfect choice for early elementary students navigating complex social dynamics. It models a beautiful transition from 'me' to 'we.'