
A parent might reach for this book when their teenager is questioning their gender identity or feeling like an outsider in their own body. It is particularly useful for families navigating the awkward, often painful transition of puberty when a child expresses that their assigned gender does not match who they are inside. This graphic memoir follows Lewis through his teenage years in the 2000s, documenting the confusion of 'St. Hell' (his hometown) with a blend of raw honesty and laugh-out-loud humor. While the book touches on heavy themes like body dysmorphia and social isolation, it remains deeply optimistic. The adult Lewis frequently 'visits' his younger self in the panels, offering the perspective that things truly do get better. It is an excellent choice for parents who want to normalize the trans experience and provide their teen with a roadmap for self-acceptance that doesn't shy away from the messy parts of growing up. Suitable for ages 14 and up due to mature themes and realistic teen language.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepictions of gender dysphoria, body discomfort, and feelings of isolation.
Characters encounter transphobia and lack of understanding from peers and society.
The book deals directly and secularly with gender dysphoria, body image, and the process of coming out. It addresses the discomfort of female puberty for a trans-masculine person. The resolution is realistic and deeply hopeful, showing a successful, happy adult life.
A high schooler who feels like they are performing a role they didn't audition for. It's for the kid who is exploring their gender but is intimidated by clinical or overly tragic stories; they need to see that being trans can also be funny and normal.
Parents should be aware of realistic depictions of binding (and unsafe binding), discussions of periods, and some crude teenage humor/language. It can be read cold, but it’s a great 'read together' or 'read and discuss' book. A parent might see their child withdrawing, changing their clothing style drastically, or expressing intense hatred for their changing body and feel unsure how to start the conversation.
Younger teens (13-14) will connect with the cringe-worthy social moments and the feeling of being misunderstood. Older teens (17-18) will appreciate the memoir's reflection on how much they've grown and the specifics of the transition process.
The meta-commentary between the adult author and his younger self is a brilliant touch that provides immediate emotional safety, assuring the reader that the protagonist makes it through the 'hell' of high school.
This graphic memoir depicts Lewis Hancox's journey growing up as a trans man in northern England. The narrative uses a unique framing device where the adult Lewis interacts with his teenage self, providing commentary on his past confusion, bad haircuts, and the struggle to find the right words for his identity before he knew the term 'transgender.'
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