
Reach for this book when your child feels the weight of 'fitting in' or is struggling with the expectation to be just like everyone else. In this whimsical story, a conductor tries to lead a choir of animals in a song about what they are 'supposed' to like, such as cows liking grass or lions liking roaring. However, the animals break into their own hilarious solos to reveal their true, quirky passions, like a lion who actually loves to knit. This story is a joyful celebration of individuality and the courage to voice one's own truth. It is perfect for preschoolers and early elementary children who are beginning to navigate social groups. By using humor and music, it reassures children that their unique interests make them special, even if they don't match the stereotypes or 'scripts' others have written for them.
The book deals with identity and social expectations metaphorically through animals. It is entirely secular and resolves with a hopeful, celebratory embrace of the 'misfit' identities.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 4 to 6 year old who has a specific, niche hobby or interest and might feel shy about it, or a child who tends to be a 'people pleaser' and needs to see the value in breaking the mold.
This is a loud, performative book. Parents should be prepared to use different voices and perhaps even 'sing' the lines to capture the musical theater energy of the text. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'But everyone else is doing it,' or 'I have to like this because I'm a [boy/girl/big kid/etc.].'
Younger children (3-4) will find the absurd imagery of knitting lions hilarious. Older children (6-8) will better grasp the underlying message about subverting expectations and the frustration of being pigeonholed.
Unlike many 'be yourself' books that are sentimental or quiet, this one uses absurdist humor and a meta-narrative structure where the characters talk back to the narrator/conductor.
The story follows Mr. de Calamari, a conductor attempting to lead a group of animals in a formal song about their stereotypical traits. He expects cows to like grass and lions to be fierce. However, the animals repeatedly interrupt the performance to clarify their actual preferences, which include knitting, woodworking, and poetry. The 'script' of the natural world is flipped in favor of personal identity.
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