Reach for this book when your daughter begins noticing the 'unwritten rules' of girlhood and feels she lacks a roadmap for navigating puberty or social dynamics. Gabby is twelve years old and struggling with the disappearance of a mother figure while her father remains tight-lipped about the past. This story sensitively explores the deep-seated need for maternal connection and the courage required to ask painful family questions. It is a tender, realistic choice for middle-grade readers (ages 9-12) dealing with grief, the onset of adolescence, or the feeling of being an outsider within their own family. It provides a safe space to discuss how we fill the gaps in our own histories.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals directly with the death of a mother and the secondary loss of a potential stepmother. The approach is secular and deeply realistic. The resolution is hopeful but grounded: Gabby doesn't get a perfect replacement for her mother, but she gains the truth and a stronger voice.
A thoughtful 10 or 11-year-old girl who feels slightly out of step with her peers or who is curious about family secrets. Especially resonant for children in single-parent or blended-family transitions.
Read the sections where Gabby discovers the specific details of her mother's accident. It is handled gently but may require a follow-up conversation about safety and honesty. A parent might notice their child withdrawing, asking pointed questions about deceased relatives, or expressing frustration that they 'don't know how to be a girl.'
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on Gabby's desire for a 'mom' figure. Older readers (11-12) will connect more with the social anxiety and the physiological changes of puberty.
Unlike many 'dead mom' tropes, Baskin focuses on the logistical and social 'handbook' a mother provides, rather than just the tragedy itself.
Twelve-year-old Gabby is reeling after her father's fiancée, Cleo, leaves their lives abruptly. This loss triggers a dormant need to understand the mother she lost in a tragic accident years ago. While her father and older brother, Ian, avoid the subject, Gabby begins a quest for information, navigating the 'secret' codes of middle school and physical changes along the way.
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