
A parent or educator would reach for this book when a child has experienced a sudden, overwhelming life event such as the death of a loved one, a natural disaster, or a violent community event. This is not a traditional storybook but a guided art therapy workbook designed to help children move through the disorientation of trauma. It provides a structured yet creative outlet for children who are struggling to find the words to describe their fear, confusion, or grief. The book focuses on normalizing the intense physical and emotional responses to crisis while teaching healthy coping mechanisms. By focusing on drawing and personal expression, it allows children aged 6 to 12 to process difficult themes like loss and change at their own pace. Parents will appreciate how it transforms a terrifying experience into a manageable project, fostering resilience and opening a vital door for family communication during the most difficult of times.
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As the title suggests, the book deals directly with 'terrible things,' which can include death, divorce, or disasters. The approach is direct and secular, providing a clinical yet compassionate framework for understanding trauma. The resolution is realistic: it focuses on coping and management rather than a 'quick fix' or magical ending.
A child between 6 and 10 who is acting out, withdrawing, or having nightmares following a major family or community crisis. It is perfect for the child who is 'stuck' and unable to verbalize their feelings but finds comfort in art and tactile activities.
Parents should read the introduction and the 'Note to Adults' first. This book is best used as a collaborative tool; it is not meant to be handed to a child to complete alone. Parents should be prepared to see some difficult drawings that reflect the child's internal distress. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say 'I'm scared it will happen again' or 'I don't want to talk about it.' It is often the first tool recommended when a child's behavior changes drastically after a loss.
Younger children (6-8) will focus primarily on the drawing prompts and the physical sensations of grief. Older children (9-12) will engage more deeply with the logic of the explanations and may use the space for more detailed writing or storytelling.
Unlike narrative bibliotherapy where a child observes a character's journey, this book makes the child the protagonist of their own healing. It is a workhorse in the field of childhood trauma, valued for its simplicity and the way it bypasses verbal barriers through art.
This is an interactive art therapy workbook that guides children through the processing of a traumatic event. It uses simple explanations and drawing prompts to help children identify what happened, how their body feels, the various emotions they are experiencing, and how to begin the healing process. It covers the basics of grief, the mechanics of change, and the importance of self-care.
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