When We Were Infinite

Reach for this book when your teenager is struggling with the silent weight of high expectations or feels responsible for a friend's well-being. This poignant novel follows Beth and her close-knit group of musical friends as they navigate the pressure of college admissions and the fallout of a domestic crisis within their circle. It is a deeply empathetic look at how young people often try to fix adult problems and the toll that secrecy and loyalty can take on their own mental health. Appropriate for ages 14 and up, this story explores the complexity of Asian American identity and the intense bonds of high school friendships. Parents will appreciate how it validates the anxiety of the 'perfect student' while offering a realistic look at healing. It is an excellent choice for starting conversations about setting boundaries and recognizing when a situation requires professional help rather than just a friend's support.