Where's My Mum Now?

A parent or educator would reach for this book when they are supporting a child through the terminal illness or recent death of a primary caregiver. It provides a bridge for adults who are hesitant to include children in the realities of death, offering evidence-based reassurance that children are often more resilient than we imagine. Rather than a fictional story, this is a research-grounded guide that captures the actual voices and experiences of children who have lost a parent. The book emphasizes the vital importance of honesty, openness, and active involvement in the grieving process. It addresses the difficult question of whether children should attend funerals or be present at the bedside of a dying loved one. Written with a background in both chaplaincy and health care communication, it serves as a compassionate roadmap for families navigating their deepest fears while honoring a child's right to say goodbye and understand the truth.