
A parent might reach for this book when their child expresses a wish to be like someone else or feels unsure of their own special talents. This charming story follows Whitney, a lovable dugong who feels a bit plain compared to the other exciting creatures in the sea. He hilariously tries to be a fish, a turtle, and even an electric eel, with comical results. Through his gentle and funny journey, the book explores themes of identity, belonging, and self-acceptance. Perfect for early elementary schoolers, its lighthearted humor provides a wonderful and accessible way to start a conversation about what makes each of us unique and valuable.
The core theme is identity, belonging, and feelings of inadequacy. The approach is entirely metaphorical, using an animal protagonist to explore these universal childhood feelings. The narrative is secular, and the resolution is direct, affirming, and very hopeful. There is no ambiguity; the message is clearly that one's unique traits are valuable.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis is for a 6 to 8-year-old who is beginning to compare themselves to their peers. They might be feeling left out or less-than because they can't run as fast, draw as well, or don't share the same interests as the 'popular' kids. It's for a child who needs a humorous, low-stakes story to absorb the 'be yourself' message.
No preparation is necessary. The book can be read cold. James Stevenson's comic-strip style with dialogue bubbles makes the story very easy to follow. The message is simple and delivered with such charm and humor that it requires no external framing. A parent overhears their child saying something like, "I wish I had curly hair like Sarah," or "Why can't I be good at soccer like Ben?" The child may be actively trying to change their appearance or personality to fit in with a group.
A 6-year-old will primarily connect with the slapstick humor of a dugong trying to fit into a turtle shell. They will grasp the simple, explicit message: it's good to be you. An 8 or 9-year-old can appreciate the more nuanced social-emotional layer: the feeling of wanting to conform, the process of self-discovery, and the realization that our differences are our strengths.
Unlike many earnest 'be yourself' books, this one's primary vehicle is humor. James Stevenson's signature sketchy, cartoonish art and witty dialogue make the message feel discovered rather than preached. The choice of a dugong as the protagonist is unique and memorable, adding to the book's distinctive charm. It feels more like a funny comic than a lesson.
Whitney is a dugong who is bored and dissatisfied with being a dugong. He decides to try being other, more interesting sea animals. He joins a school of fish, tries to wear a shell like a turtle, and even attempts to be an electric eel. Each transformation attempt fails in a humorous, gentle way. A moment of mild peril arises, and Whitney discovers that his unique dugong abilities (like his strength and size) are exactly what's needed to save the day. He and his new friends realize that being himself is the best and most useful thing he can be.
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