
Reach for this book when your child is asking about their adoption story, wondering how different families are made, or preparing to welcome a new sibling through adoption. It provides a beautiful, normalizing perspective on the universal themes of waiting and longing that precede the joy of becoming a family. The story validates the nervous excitement of parents while centering the experience of the children being joined with their new homes. This gentle narrative follows four diverse households: a mother and father, two moms, a single mother, and a family with an older sister, all traveling to China to meet their daughters. By highlighting the variety of family structures, the book reinforces that love and intention, rather than biological matching, define a family. It is an ideal choice for children aged 4 to 8 who are developing their sense of identity and personal history within a diverse world.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with international adoption and the concept of orphanages. The approach is realistic yet softened for young children, focusing on the transition and the arrival of the parents. It is secular and deeply hopeful. It does not dwell on the biological parents or the reasons for the adoption, keeping the focus on the creation of the new family unit.
A preschooler or early elementary student who was adopted from China, or any child in a non-traditional family who needs to see that 'family' comes in many forms. It is also excellent for peers of adopted children to help them understand a friend's background.
Parents should be prepared for questions about why the babies were in an orphanage or why their first parents couldn't keep them. The book is safe to read cold, but having a simple, age-appropriate explanation for 'first parents' or 'birth parents' is helpful. A parent might reach for this when their child asks, 'Why don't I look like you?' or 'How did I get here?' It is also a response to a child noticing different family structures in their classroom.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the travel, the babies, and the colorful illustrations. Older children (7-8) will pick up on the emotional weight of the parents' waiting and the significance of the different family types.
Unlike many adoption books that focus on a single family, this title stands out by presenting a montage of four different families, including LGBTQ and single-parent representation, making it a powerful tool for inclusivity.
The story tracks four distinct families: a traditional couple, a lesbian couple, a single mother, and a couple with a biological daughter. Each begins their day in North America, preparing for a long journey to Guangzhou, China. The narrative follows their flight, their stay at the White Swan Hotel, and the momentous day they meet their new daughters at the social welfare institute. The book concludes with the families beginning their lives together, emphasizing the diverse paths to parenthood.
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