
A parent would reach for this book when their teenage son feels like a social underdog or is struggling to bridge the gap between being a kid and becoming a man. Winger follows Ryan Dean West, a fourteen year old junior at a boarding school who is younger and smaller than his peers. He navigates the complexities of unrequited love, locker room dynamics, and the intense pressure of high school sports. While the book is hilariously relatable for teens, it deals with mature themes including sexuality, heavy profanity, and a sudden, life altering tragedy. It is best suited for older teens (14 and up) who are ready for a raw, honest look at the messy reality of growing up and the weight of personal identity.
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Sign in to write a reviewFrank discussions of teen sexuality, horniness, and some sexual situations.
Includes rough sports contact and a brutal physical assault.
Deals with profound grief, loss of a friend, and the aftermath of violence.
The book handles sexuality and teen hormones very directly and secularly. The ending involves a sudden act of hate-motivated violence and character death. The resolution is realistic and bittersweet, focusing on grief and the slow process of moving forward rather than a tidy happy ending.
A 15 year old boy who feels like an outsider or late bloomer. This reader might use humor as a shield and is looking for a book that doesn't talk down to him about the realities of teen life.
Parents should absolutely be aware of the heavy profanity and sexual frankness. The ending involves a hate crime (homophobic violence) that is jarring. It can be read cold by a mature teen, but a parent may want to be available to talk after the final chapters. A parent might see their child withdrawing after a social falling out or expressing frustration that they don't 'fit' the traditional masculine mold of their peers.
A 14 year old will identify with Ryan Dean's insecurity and physical 'smallness.' An 18 year old will look back with more nostalgia and perhaps a deeper understanding of the gravity of the book's tragic turning point.
The use of charcoal and ink illustrations, diagrams, and maps created by the protagonist provides a unique, intimate window into his frantic, creative, and often distracted teenage mind.
Ryan Dean West is a 14 year old junior at Pine Mountain, a boarding school for wealthy or troubled kids. Because he skipped grades, he is the youngest and smallest on the rugby team. The story follows his attempt to win over his best friend Megan while surviving the O-Hall dorm, notorious for its troublemakers. What begins as a comedic coming of age story shifts abruptly into a profound exploration of loss after a violent event changes everything.
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