
A parent would reach for this book when their child is feeling anxious about trying a new activity, especially if they are comparing themselves to others. Yasmin is excited for her class ice skating trip, but her confidence wavers when she sees how wobbly she is and how well her friend skates. This gentle story explores the common fear of not being good enough right away. Through the encouragement of her Baba (father), Yasmin learns that falling is part of learning and that finding her own unique style is more important than being perfect. It’s an ideal choice for early readers, normalizing perseverance and building self-confidence in a relatable, supportive family context.
The core theme is performance anxiety and the fear of failure. The approach is direct, gentle, and highly relatable for young children. The resolution is entirely hopeful and empowering, focusing on internal validation (having fun) over external validation (being a good skater). The story is secular but features a culturally specific Pakistani-American family, which is presented as a warm and positive norm.
A 5 to 7-year-old who is hesitant to try new physical activities (like sports, swimming, or riding a bike) because they are afraid of not being good at it immediately or looking silly in front of their friends. It's particularly good for a child who tends to compare their own nascent skills to those of their peers.
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Sign in to write a reviewNo preparation is needed. The book can be read cold. The text is simple and the illustrations by Hatem Aly perfectly complement the emotional tone. Cultural terms like "Baba" are clear from the context. The parent has just heard their child say, "I can't do it," "It's too hard," or "Everyone is better than me!" after attempting a new skill. The child might be on the verge of quitting a new class or refusing to participate in an activity.
A 5-year-old will connect with the basic feelings of being wobbly, falling down, and being scared. An 8-year-old will grasp the more nuanced social-emotional element of comparing herself to Emma and the cleverness of Yasmin's imaginative solution to her problem. Older readers will also appreciate the early chapter book format, which feels like a step up from a picture book.
Unlike many perseverance stories that focus on "practice makes perfect," this book's unique angle is about "finding your own way." Yasmin doesn't become an expert skater by the end. Instead, she becomes an expert at having fun and being herself, which is a more accessible and powerful message for a child struggling with perfectionism. The joyful representation of a Pakistani-American family is also a key strength.
Yasmin's second grade class goes on a field trip to an ice rink. Yasmin is initially excited, but she becomes nervous and self-conscious when she struggles to stay upright while her friend Emma glides effortlessly. After a fall, she feels embarrassed and wants to give up. Her father (Baba) encourages her, reminding her that everyone falls. Instead of trying to be a perfect skater, Yasmin uses her imagination to create her own moves, pretending to be a superhero and a race car. She ends the day having fun, having embraced her own unique way of skating.
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