
Reach for this book when your child is hesitant about joining a new group or feels unsure about how to include a peer who seems different from them. It is especially helpful if your child is navigating the social dynamics of school or sports teams and needs a clear, faith-based model for kindness and integrity. The story follows Jade as she learns that being a good friend means more than just being polite: it means active inclusion and sticking up for others even when it is not the popular thing to do. Written by NFL coach Tony Dungy and his wife Lauren, the book uses relatable school scenarios to teach empathy and loyalty. It is perfect for children ages 4 to 8 who are developing their social identity and learning to balance their own needs with the needs of the community.
The book addresses social isolation and mild peer pressure. The approach is direct and rooted in Christian values, though the message of kindness is universal. The resolution is hopeful and serves as a clear model for prosocial behavior.
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Sign in to write a reviewA 6-year-old who is starting a new school year or sports season and feels a bit shy, or a child who has noticed someone sitting alone at lunch and needs the language to bridge that gap.
This book can be read cold. Parents should be prepared to discuss how their specific family values or faith traditions align with the 'Golden Rule' style of friendship presented here. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'No one wanted to play with the new kid today,' or if the child expresses fear that their old friends won't like them if they talk to someone new.
A 4-year-old will focus on the simple mechanics of sharing and playing together. An 8-year-old will better understand the social stakes of peer pressure and the courage required to stand up for an outsider.
Unlike many books on friendship that focus on sharing toys, this one focuses on the character and integrity of the 'includer,' backed by the Dungy family's reputation for leadership and faith.
The story follows a young girl named Jade who encounters a new peer or a child who is being marginalized by the group. Through the guidance of her parents and her own moral compass, Jade decides to step outside her comfort zone to befriend the newcomer, eventually leading the rest of her social circle to do the same.
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