
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to connect with a grandparent who is experiencing memory loss or living in a care facility. It is a gentle tool for navigating the confusion and sadness that arises when a loved one no longer recognizes their family or acts like the person they used to be. The story follows a young boy visiting his grandmother, Ronnie, in a nursing home. While he is initially unsettled by her wheelchair and her forgetfulness, he discovers that their shared love of dance provides a bridge across the gaps in her memory. This book is particularly appropriate for elementary-aged children who need permission to feel sad while also being shown how to find joy in new, adapted versions of their relationships. Parents will appreciate how the swirling, impressionistic illustrations reflect the internal emotional experience of the characters, making the abstract concept of Alzheimer's more accessible.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book addresses dementia and physical disability directly but through a secular lens. It does not shy away from the reality of the condition, making the resolution realistic rather than miraculous: she doesn't suddenly 'get better,' but they find a new way to be together.
An 8-year-old child who feels 'spooked' or reluctant to visit a relative in a care facility. It's for the child who misses the 'old version' of their grandparent and needs a roadmap for how to interact with the current version.
Read this book cold with the child, but be prepared for the child to ask, 'Will she ever remember him?' The parent should be ready to explain that while the brain is sick, the love remains. A parent might see their child pull away from a grandparent's touch or express fear/discomfort about visiting a nursing home.
Younger children (5-6) will focus on the dancing and the vibrant colors. Older children (8-9) will more keenly feel the boy's grief and the poignancy of being forgotten.
Unlike many books on aging that focus on storytelling or crafts, this focuses on physical movement and sensory connection (dance) as the primary language of love.
The story centers on a young boy visiting his grandmother, Ronnie, who has Alzheimer's and uses a wheelchair. The boy struggles with the transition from the Grandma he once knew to the woman who now resides in a nursing home and doesn't recognize him. Through the medium of dance, they find a rhythmic, physical connection that transcends language and cognitive decline.
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