
Reach for this book when your child is struggling with intense competitiveness or having trouble being a good sport during games. While it is natural for children to want to win, Abby's story addresses the moment when that drive turns into anger and begins to push friends away. The book follows Abby, a competitive member of the Baby-Sitters Club, as she takes a neighborhood softball game too seriously and hurts her friends' feelings. This story is ideal for children ages 6 to 9 who are navigating the social complexities of team sports and group play. It explores themes of accountability and the importance of an honest apology. Parents will appreciate how it models the realization that maintaining a friendship is a much greater victory than winning a game, providing a gentle bridge for discussing sportsmanship and emotional self-regulation.





















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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with social conflict and peer pressure in a secular, direct manner. The resolution is realistic: Abby doesn't stop being competitive, but she learns to manage her behavior to preserve her relationships.
An elementary schooler who is highly skilled in sports or academics but struggles with 'sore loser' (or 'sore winner') tendencies. It is perfect for the child who feels deep frustration when others don't take a task as seriously as they do.
Read the scenes involving the softball game to see the specific dialogue Abby uses. It provides excellent 'what not to do' examples for discussion. A parent might see their child throwing a bat in frustration, blaming a teammate for a loss, or being excluded from a group because they are too bossy during play.
Younger readers (6-7) will focus on the 'mean' versus 'nice' behavior during the game. Older readers (8-9) will better grasp the internal pressure Abby feels to be the best and the social consequences of her intensity.
Unlike many books on sportsmanship that focus on losing, this focuses on the behavior of a 'star' player. It highlights that being good at something doesn't give you the right to be unkind.
Abby Stevenson, known for her athletic prowess and competitive nature, becomes overly aggressive during a neighborhood softball game. Her obsession with winning leads her to criticize her friends and act like a 'bad sport.' After realizing she has alienated the people she cares about, Abby must take responsibility for her actions, offer sincere apologies, and learn to prioritize fun and friendship over the scoreboard.
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