
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the realization that their best friend might also be their biggest rival. It is a perfect fit for middle grade readers who are beginning to measure their own worth against the achievements of their peers. The story follows Tatum, a talented clarinetist, as she faces a high stakes audition for the District Honor Band. The catch? There is only one spot, and her best friend Lori wants it just as badly. This novel beautifully explores the nuance of 'frenemies' and the anxiety of performance. Parents will appreciate how it validates the uncomfortable feelings of jealousy and the pressure to succeed, ultimately modeling how to advocate for oneself while maintaining a healthy friendship. It is an ideal mirror for children in competitive sports, music, or academics.
The book deals with social dynamics and minor manipulation within friendships. The approach is secular and highly realistic. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality, acknowledging that friendships change as people grow.
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Sign in to write a reviewAn 11-year-old girl who is highly invested in an extracurricular activity and is starting to feel 'less than' compared to a more dominant or vocal friend.
Read the scenes involving Lori's subtle 'negging' to discuss with your child how to spot passive-aggressive behavior. The book can be read cold, but expect a discussion about fair play. A parent might see their child making excuses for a friend who is actually being unkind or competitive, or witness their child losing sleep over an upcoming performance or test.
Younger readers (ages 8-9) will focus on the excitement of the musical competition. Older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with the complex social politics and the internal struggle of wanting a friend to succeed while wanting to win more.
Unlike many 'mean girl' books, this focuses on the specific intersection of art, ambition, and female friendship, showing that you can be a 'good person' and still be a fierce competitor.
Tatum and Lori have always been a duo, but the audition for the District Honor Band creates a zero sum game where only one can win. As Tatum struggles with her own musical identity and the pressure to outshine her best friend, she discovers that Lori might be manipulating her to ensure a win. The story tracks Tatum's journey from being a passive 'second chair' friend to standing up for her own talent and worth.
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