
Reach for this book when your child is facing a big public moment and feels paralyzed by the 'what-ifs.' Whether it is a spelling bee, a school play, or a sports game, this story speaks directly to the physical sensation of stage fright and the quiet courage required to show up anyway. It provides a beautiful roadmap for how families can support a child's anxiety without dismissing it. The story follows Spider, a young Shoshone boy who is terrified of his school spelling bee. Through conversations with his father, grandmother, and brother, he learns to draw strength from his heritage and the natural world. It is a gentle, realistic portrayal of contemporary Indigenous life that emphasizes that being brave does not mean you are not afraid; it means you find a way to stand tall despite the butterflies in your stomach.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book handles anxiety in a very direct, realistic manner. It is secular in its approach to the school setting but includes subtle spiritual and cultural connections to the Shoshone heritage. The resolution is hopeful and empowering, showing that the anxiety is manageable rather than magically cured.
An elementary schooler who excels at a skill in private but shrinks from public recognition. It is perfect for a child who feels 'too small' for the tasks ahead of them.
This book can be read cold. Parents might want to look at the watercolor illustrations beforehand to discuss the setting of a contemporary reservation, which may be a new concept for some children. A parent might choose this after hearing their child say, 'I can't go,' or 'I'm sick,' specifically before a performance or public event.
Younger children (5-6) will focus on the fear of the 'big stage' and the comfort of the family unit. Older children (7-9) will better appreciate the cultural identity aspect and the metaphor of the mountain lion as a mental tool for self-regulation.
Unlike many 'bravery' books that focus on physical feats, this one focuses on intellectual and social courage while providing essential representation of contemporary Shoshone life, moving away from historical stereotypes.
Spider is a talented speller, but when he is selected for the all-school spelling bee, he is gripped by stage fright. He seeks advice from his family members, who each offer a different perspective on courage. Ultimately, Spider uses a metaphor of a mountain lion to find his internal strength, successfully participating in the event before his community.
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