
A parent should reach for this book when their child is struggling with the emotional fallout of a divorce or the difficult transition of a parent's remarriage. It is particularly resonant for children who feel caught between two homes or who are experiencing the unique 'homesickness' that comes with living far away from a non-custodial parent. The story follows Dawn Schafer as she navigates her mother's wedding and her own complicated feelings about her father and brother living on the opposite coast. While the book deals with themes of loneliness, loyalty, and the anxiety of change, it remains firmly grounded in a supportive, middle-grade reality. It validates the messy, often contradictory feelings children have when their family structure shifts. Ideal for ages 8 to 12, this story offers comfort and normalcy, reminding young readers that it is okay to miss one life while trying to build another.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book handles divorce and remarriage with a very direct, secular approach. It avoids sugar-coating the difficulty of living 3,000 miles away from a parent. The resolution is realistic: Dawn doesn't 'fix' her family, but she learns to accept the new configuration with hope.
A 10-year-old girl who spends her summers or holidays flying between parents and feels like a guest in both homes rather than a permanent resident of either.
Parents should be prepared to discuss the logistics of Dawn's travel and the concept of 'loyalty binds,' where a child feels guilty for enjoying time with one parent. No specific scenes require censoring, but the emotional weight of Dawn's homesickness is palpable. A parent might see their child looking through old photo albums, acting out after a phone call with the other parent, or expressing fear that a new step-parent will 'replace' them.
Younger readers (8-9) will focus on the travel and the wedding festivities. Older readers (11-12) will deeply resonate with Dawn's identity crisis and her struggle to define 'home' as a place versus a feeling.
Unlike many 'divorce books' that focus on the initial split, this highlights the long-term reality of bicoastal living and the specific grief of missing out on a parent's daily life.
Part of the Baby-sitters Club series, this story focuses on Dawn Schafer's internal conflict regarding her family's bicoastal split. As her mother in Connecticut prepares to remarry and her father in California also moves forward with his life, Dawn travels to the West Coast. She must balance her excitement for her father's new happiness with her own feelings of displacement and the realization that her 'old' life is gone forever.
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