It's Not Your Fault!

Reach for this book when your child seems withdrawn, anxious about going to school, or has expressed that they are being treated unkindly by peers. It is specifically designed for children grappling with the heavy weight of self-blame that often accompanies bullying. By introducing a magical, compassionate character named Florence, the story provides a gentle buffer between the child and their trauma, helping them process difficult emotions from a safe distance. The narrative follows Ella, a young girl being teased and excluded, who receives messages of hope from Florence, a magical bag who can hear her thoughts. The book focuses on reframing the situation to show that the bully's behavior is a reflection of the bully, not the victim. It is an essential tool for parents of elementary-aged children who need to normalize the act of asking for help and dismantle the secrecy that often surrounds peer victimization.