
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with the heartbreak of a broken possession, a physical injury, or a feeling of being 'damaged' or 'less than' after a difficult experience. It is a profoundly comforting choice for children who struggle with perfectionism or who are navigating the sadness of a sudden change or loss. The story follows Emi and her beloved stuffed fox, Kintaro, who is swept away during a storm. When Kintaro is eventually found, he is tattered and torn, but he is lovingly restored using the Japanese art of Kintsugi, the practice of repairing broken pottery with gold to highlight its history. Through beautiful prose and art, the book explores themes of resilience and the idea that our scars and repairs make us more beautiful and unique. It is perfectly suited for children ages 4 to 8, providing a gentle, metaphorical framework for understanding healing and emotional recovery.
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Sign in to write a reviewFeelings of loss, loneliness, and the sadness of seeing a beloved toy damaged.
The book deals with loss and physical damage. The approach is metaphorical and secular, though deeply rooted in Japanese cultural philosophy. The resolution is hopeful and empowering, reframing 'brokenness' as a mark of history and strength.
A 6-year-old child who is perfectionistic and becomes deeply distressed when things aren't 'new' or 'perfect,' or a child who has experienced a minor trauma or physical injury and feels self-conscious about their 'scars.'
Read the back matter about Kintsugi and the author's note first so you can explain the 'golden threads' concept to your child if they ask why the repairs are so bright. A parent might see their child crying over a ripped toy, refusing to wear a bandage because it makes them look 'broken,' or expressing that they feel 'ruined' after a failure.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the relief of Kintaro coming home. Older children (7-8) will grasp the deeper metaphor that things (and people) can be stronger at the broken places.
Unlike many 'lost toy' books that end with the toy being replaced or looking 'good as new,' this book celebrates the visible repairs. It teaches that the mending process is an art form itself.
Emi and her stuffed fox, Kintaro, are inseparable until a violent windstorm carries Kintaro far from home. Kintaro endures the elements and is eventually found by a neighbor. Emi is heartbroken to see him so damaged, but her grandmother helps her repair him using the philosophy of Kintsugi (traditionally for pottery), using golden thread to stitch his tears.
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