
Reach for this book when your child is feeling invisible or resentful while a sibling faces a serious medical crisis. It is an essential resource for families where a healthy child is struggling with the guilt of being 'okay' while their world has been upended by a brother or sister's illness. The story follows Matt, whose family has moved to a new town to be closer to the hospital where his older brother, Robbie, is being treated for cancer. Through the lens of Matt's passion for baseball, the book explores the messy and often taboo emotions of sibling rivalry mixed with medical trauma. It addresses the shame of wishing things would just go back to normal and the frustration of having one's own needs sidelined. Written for middle-grade readers, it offers a realistic and secular approach to family resilience that validates a child's right to their own feelings, even in the midst of a larger family tragedy.
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The book deals directly with childhood cancer and the grueling nature of treatment. The approach is secular and highly realistic, focusing on the physiological and emotional toll on the family. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in the reality that recovery is a long, uncertain process.
A 10-year-old athlete who is a 'glass child,' someone who feels they must be perfect and invisible because their sibling is in crisis. This reader needs to know that their anger and frustration do not make them a bad person.
Parents should be aware of scenes describing the physical effects of chemotherapy, which may be intense for sensitive readers. The book can be read cold, but it is best used as a springboard for one-on-one check-ins about the healthy sibling's emotional state. A parent might see their child acting out or, conversely, becoming unnaturally quiet and withdrawn while a sibling is hospitalized. They might hear the child express 'selfish' desires or notice a drop in the child's academic or social engagement.
Younger readers (age 8-9) will focus on the sports action and the fear of the brother's illness. Older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of Matt's guilt and the complex family dynamics.
Unlike many 'sick lit' books that focus on the patient, this story stays firmly in the dugout with the sibling. It uses baseball as a perfect metaphor for 'holding at third,' the feeling of being stuck and waiting for a signal to move forward.
Matt is a talented baseball player whose life is redefined by his brother Robbies battle with cancer. After a family move to be near a specialized hospital, Matt must navigate a new school and a new team while his parents are understandably preoccupied. The story balances the tension of the baseball diamond with the sterile, high-stakes environment of the oncology ward.
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