
A parent might reach for this book when their child is struggling with the news of a new sibling. This story validates the complex, sometimes negative, feelings that come with family changes by wrapping them in humor and adventure. In the book, Ivy is horrified to learn she's getting a new baby sister. She and her best friend, Bean, decide that being a cool, gift-giving aunt is much better, so they hatch a plan to run away and become professional aunts. This book is perfect for early chapter book readers, ages 6 to 9. It uses the power of friendship and wild imagination to explore feelings of jealousy and fear of being replaced, ultimately reassuring children that a growing family means more love, not less.
The primary sensitive topic is navigating the complex emotions surrounding the arrival of a new sibling. The book's approach is entirely humorous and child-centric, focusing on Ivy's feelings of jealousy and displacement. The treatment is secular and lighthearted. The resolution is hopeful, with Ivy showing signs of acceptance and even a little excitement by the end, though her core personality remains unchanged.
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Sign in to write a reviewAn elementary school-aged child (6-8 years old) who is about to become an older sibling and is showing signs of resistance, jealousy, or anxiety. It's also an excellent fit for any early chapter book reader who loves funny stories about friendship, misadventures, and creative problem-solving.
No specific preparation is needed; the book can be read cold. The concept of "running away" is handled with extreme levity and is very low-stakes (they only plan to go to the nearby park). A parent could be prepared to discuss why Ivy felt so strongly and how talking with a friend helped her come up with a plan, even if it was a silly one. A parent has recently announced they are expecting a baby, and their child's reaction was negative or withdrawn. The child might say things like, "I don't want a baby brother," or "Will you still love me?"
A younger reader (6-7) will delight in the slapstick humor of the girls' schemes and their funny dialogue. An older reader (8-9) will better appreciate the emotional subtext of Ivy's fears and the cleverness of her and Bean's logic. They will also relate more deeply to the dynamics between Ivy and her older sister, Nancy.
This book stands out by fully validating an older sibling's negative feelings without judgment or immediate correction. Unlike many picture books on the topic that are purely sweet and reassuring, this story uses humor and the power of friendship to process complex emotions. Ivy's journey feels authentic because her change of heart is gradual and driven by her own experiences, not by adult lecturing.
Ivy learns her mother is pregnant, and she is upset by the news. Convinced that being a sister is a raw deal, she and her best friend Bean decide to become aunts instead, as aunts get to have all the fun and give presents. They hatch a plan to practice their auntly duties on Ivy's exasperated older sister, Nancy. Their well-intentioned but chaotic efforts, including a disastrous at-home spa treatment, lead to a huge mess and highlight the humorous misunderstandings between the friends and the rest of the family. Through their misadventures, Ivy begins to warm up to the idea of a new baby, seeing it as an expansion of her family rather than a replacement of her role in it.
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