
A parent might reach for this book when their child begs to start a new activity, only to realize it's not what they imagined and now wants to quit. Ivy and Bean: Doomed to Dance follows two best friends who are desperate to take ballet, but quickly discover it's more boring and difficult than they expected. When they are cast as lowly squids in the recital, their desire to quit escalates into a hilarious, misguided scheme to get themselves kicked out. This story brilliantly captures the childhood dilemma of commitment versus regret, wrapped in humor and creativity. For ages 6 to 9, it normalizes the feeling of making a mistake and explores problem-solving, even if the solution is a bit mischievous.
This book does not contain sensitive topics. The central conflict is low-stakes and handled with humor.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis is for a 6 to 8-year-old early chapter book reader who has recently encountered 'buyer's remorse' with a new activity. They might have begged for soccer or piano lessons only to discover the reality of practice and commitment. This reader is likely feeling a mix of boredom, guilt, and a desire for an easy way out of their situation.
The book can be read cold. Parents may want to be prepared to discuss the difference between Ivy and Bean's solution (scheming and mild deception) and other ways to solve the problem, like talking to their parents. This is a great opportunity to talk about honesty in a low-pressure context. The parent's child has just declared, "I hate it! I want to quit!" about an activity they were passionate about only weeks before. The parent is frustrated about the money and time spent and is looking for a gentle, funny way to open a conversation about commitment and changing your mind.
A younger reader (6-7) will focus on the overt humor: the gross ingredients for the spell, the funny image of dancing squids, and the slapstick chaos at the end. An older reader (8-9) will have a greater appreciation for the social dynamics: the girls' fear of embarrassment, the nuances of their friendship, and the cleverness of their (flawed) logic in trying to solve their problem without confronting adults.
While many books cover trying new things, this one uniquely focuses on the desire to quit. It doesn't moralize about perseverance. Instead, it validates the child's feeling of being trapped by a bad decision and celebrates creative (if mischievous) problem-solving and the strength of friendship in navigating a dilemma. The humor is paramount.
Second graders Ivy and Bean beg their mothers to let them join a ballet class. They quickly discover that ballet is not the glamorous, free-form dancing they envisioned, but rather a world of boring, repetitive exercises. Their disappointment turns to horror when they are cast as squids in the upcoming recital. Unwilling to face the embarrassment, and afraid to admit their mistake to their parents, the two friends decide they must find a way to get kicked out of ballet class. They concoct a magical 'never-dance-again' spell which they perform in the studio, leading to chaotic and comical results that ultimately achieve their goal.
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