
Reach for this book when your teenager is projecting a shield of cynicism or 'too cool for love' energy to mask deeper vulnerabilities or grief. Phoebe is a sharp-witted, hilarious, and fiercely skeptical Londoner who has decided that romance is a scam, but her summer volunteering at a thrift shop challenges her defenses. The story explores the complexities of female friendship, the quiet ache of losing a grandparent, and the unexpected spark of a first queer crush. It is a brilliant choice for parents of older teens (14+) who appreciate black comedy and need a story that validates their messy, complicated, and often contradictory feelings about growing up. While the tone is irreverent, the heart of the book is a tender exploration of self-discovery and the courage it takes to be vulnerable.
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Sign in to write a reviewFrank discussions of sexual desire, attraction, and questioning one's sexuality.
Ongoing themes of grief following the death of a grandmother.
The book handles grief and sexuality with a direct, secular approach. The death of the grandmother is a lingering emotional weight, treated realistically rather than metaphorically. Phoebe's exploration of her sexuality is frank and messy, reflecting a realistic journey of self-identification. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in reality.
A 15-year-old who uses sarcasm as a defense mechanism, perhaps feeling 'left behind' as friends start dating, and who needs a story that balances high-stakes emotions with genuine laugh-out-loud humor.
Parents should be aware of frank discussions regarding sex, menstruation, and liberal use of profanity (UK English). It can be read cold by most teens, but a quick skim of the first few diary entries will give a clear sense of the 'edgy' voice. A parent might notice their teen becoming increasingly withdrawn or performatively cynical about 'mainstream' milestones like dating or school social events, or perhaps struggling to express grief after a loss.
Younger teens (14) will connect with the social friction and the 'us vs. them' mentality of adolescence. Older teens will better appreciate the nuanced commentary on grief and the subversion of romance tropes.
Unlike many YA romances, this book is a 'romance for people who hate romance.' Its dry, British wit and commitment to Phoebe's prickly personality make the eventual emotional payoff feel earned rather than saccharine.
Phoebe is a cynical London teen navigating a summer of change. Her best friend is distracted by a new boyfriend, her mother is away on a medical mission, and Phoebe is left to volunteer at a local charity shop. Through her diary entries, she documents her disdain for romance, her grief over her grandmother's death, and her developing feelings for Emma, a girl she meets at the shop.
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