
A parent would reach for this book when they suspect their child is carrying the weight of a family secret or struggling with the fallout of a sibling's substance abuse. It speaks directly to the 'quiet' child who tries to keep the peace while their world feels like it is fracturing. The story follows Toby, a middle schooler who is a talented baseball player, as he navigates his father's departure and his older brother's descent into drug use and alcohol. Through Toby's eyes, the book explores themes of codependency, misplaced loyalty, and the crushing shame that often accompanies addiction in the home. It is a realistic and poignant look at the moment a child realizes they cannot 'fix' their family members. This is an essential choice for adolescents who feel invisible in the shadow of a relative's crisis, offering them permission to seek help for themselves. It is best suited for ages 12 to 16 due to its honest depiction of substance use and emotional neglect.
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Sign in to write a reviewThemes of parental abandonment and the emotional burden of keeping family secrets.
Occasional realistic peer language suitable for the middle school setting.
The protagonist struggles with lying to protect his brother versus telling the truth to help him.
The book deals directly with substance abuse, including marijuana and alcohol use. It also touches on parental abandonment (divorce/separation). The approach is secular and highly realistic. The resolution is not a 'happily ever after' where the brother is cured, but rather a hopeful, realistic step toward recovery and Toby's own emotional boundaries.
A 13-year-old boy who is a 'pleaser' or high achiever but seems increasingly anxious or withdrawn due to family instability. It is perfect for the teen who feels they must be the 'stable one' while everyone else is falling apart.
Parents should be aware of scenes depicting drug use and the physical symptoms of being high. It is helpful to discuss the concept of 'enabling' versus 'helping' before or during the reading. A parent might notice their child making excuses for a sibling's bad behavior, or perhaps they've seen their child stop pursuing their own hobbies (like sports) because they are too preoccupied with family drama.
Younger readers (11-12) will focus on the fear of the family breaking apart and the sports drama. Older readers (14-16) will more deeply resonate with the moral complexity of 'nitching' on a sibling and the nuance of Toby's internal guilt.
Unlike many 'problem novels,' this book uses baseball as a powerful metaphor for control and precision, contrasting it with the chaos of addiction. It focuses on the sibling's perspective rather than the addict's, which is a rarer and much-needed viewpoint.
Toby is a middle school student whose life revolves around baseball and his older brother, Jake. After their father leaves the family, Jake begins a downward spiral into smoking pot and drinking. Toby becomes his brother's keeper, lying to their mother, covering for Jake's absences, and cleaning up his messes. As Jake's addiction worsens, Toby's own life, including his spot on the baseball team, begins to unravel, forcing him to choose between family loyalty and his own well-being.
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