
Reach for this book when your child expresses frustration about their name being mispronounced, or when they feel like they need to change themselves to fit in at school. It is a powerful tool for children navigating the delicate balance between their home culture and their school identity, especially for those in immigrant families. The story follows young Thao, who considers adopting a simpler name like Jennifer after classmates and teachers struggle with her four letter Vietnamese name. Through a humorous and poignant journey, Thao realizes that while Jennifer might be easier to say, it isn't who she is. This memoir-inspired story uses unique collage art to validate feelings of being misunderstood while ultimately celebrating the importance of taking up space and being called by your true name. It is ideal for children aged 4 to 8 who are entering new social environments.
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Sign in to write a reviewDepicts common microaggressions regarding non-Western names in a school setting.
The book deals directly with cultural identity and the experience of microaggressions in a secular, realistic way. The resolution is hopeful and empowering, focusing on self-advocacy rather than a magical change in others.
A first or second grader who has started correcting people less often because they are tired of the effort, or a child who has asked if they can have a 'nickname' that sounds more like the names of their peers.
This book can be read cold. Parents might want to practice saying 'Thao' (pronounced 'Tou') correctly beforehand to model the effort the book encourages. A parent might see their child hesitate when introducing themselves or look down at their feet when a teacher mispronounces their name during roll call.
4-year-olds will connect with the physical humor of the collage illustrations. 8-year-olds will grasp the deeper social implications of 'fitting in' versus being authentic.
Unlike many 'name' books that are purely sentimental, Thao Lam uses a distinct, slightly edgy collage style and a dry wit that makes the struggle feel modern and relatable rather than just a lesson.
Thao is a young Vietnamese-Canadian girl who is tired of people tripping over her short, three-letter name. At school, the mispronunciations make her feel small. She decides to try on a new identity: Jennifer. Jennifer is easy to say and easy to be, but Thao soon discovers that Jennifer doesn't like the same foods or have the same life. The story concludes with Thao reclaiming her name and helping others learn how to say it correctly.
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