
Reach for this book when your child comes home feeling deflated because a teacher or peer can't quite get their name right. It is a vital tool for children who feel their identity is being erased through mispronunciation, providing them with the language to advocate for themselves. The story follows Mirha, a young girl excited for her first day of school, only to find her joy dampened when her name is repeatedly butchered. Through a heart-to-heart with her mama, she learns that her name is a song worth singing correctly. It is a beautiful choice for families navigating the nuances of cultural identity and the transition to a new school environment. This empowering narrative helps children ages 4 to 8 build the self-confidence needed to stand tall and kindly correct others, ensuring they feel seen and respected for exactly who they are.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book deals with microaggressions and the erasure of identity through a direct, secular lens. It addresses the emotional weight of being 'othered' in a school setting. The resolution is realistic and hopeful, focusing on self-advocacy rather than expecting others to change without guidance.
A child starting school who has a 'non-Western' or unique name and is feeling hesitant about how they will be perceived. It is perfect for a student who has already experienced the frustration of a teacher stumbling over their name during roll call.
Read the backmatter or author's note first to understand the personal inspiration. The book can be read cold, but it is helpful to practice saying 'Mirha' correctly using the phonetics provided so you can model the behavior for your child. A parent might see their child look down at the floor when someone introduces them, or hear their child ask if they can go by a 'simpler' nickname to avoid embarrassment.
Younger children (4-5) will focus on the feelings of being sad at school and the comfort of Mom. Older children (7-8) will grasp the deeper concept of 'identity' and the specific cultural pride associated with heritage names.
Unlike some books that focus on the history of names, this one focuses heavily on the active agency of the child to correct others. It is modern, vibrant, and provides a clear script for self-advocacy.
Mirha is a young girl of South Asian heritage starting her first day of school. She is initially enthusiastic, but her confidence wanes as her teacher and classmates struggle to pronounce her name, leading her to consider changing it. After a comforting talk with her mother about the meaning and beauty of her name, Mirha returns to school with a new sense of pride, teaching others how to say it correctly and forming a new friendship in the process.
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