
Reach for this book when your household is weathering the stormy adjustment of a new baby who just won't stop crying. It is an ideal balm for older siblings who might feel overlooked or frustrated by the noise and disruption a new arrival brings. The story follows a series of well-meaning adults offering the baby everything from toys to treats, only to fail at every turn. Through rhythmic, soothing prose, the book validates the feelings of frustration that arise when a baby is inconsolable. It ultimately centers the older brother as the hero who understands what the baby truly needs: simple, quiet affection. It is a wonderful choice for modeling empathy and showing big brothers and sisters that they have a unique, powerful role in their new sibling's life. This book is best suited for children ages 2 to 5 who are transitioning into their role as a big sibling.
The book is entirely secular and realistic. While there are no heavy topics like death or divorce, it does deal with the very real stress of an inconsolable infant, which can be a sensitive trigger for parents or children currently experiencing high-stress home environments.
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Sign in to write a reviewA preschooler who feels a bit displaced by a new baby and needs to feel empowered. It is perfect for the child who wants to 'help' but feels like the adults are doing everything.
This book can be read cold. The rhythmic 'wail' of the baby in the text allows for fun, dramatic vocal performance, but parents should be ready to modulate their volume for the quiet ending. A parent might reach for this after a day of 'sibling wars' or after witnessing their older child show signs of resentment or 'acting out' to get attention away from the new baby.
Toddlers will enjoy the repetition and the 'noises' of the crying baby. Older children (4-5) will catch the irony of the adults being 'silly' and will take pride in the brother's competence.
Unlike many 'new baby' books that focus on the baby being cute, this one focuses on the brother's agency and the idea that love is more valuable than things.
A family is thrown into mild chaos as a baby cries incessantly. One by one, family members and neighbors offer traditional distractions: a rattle, a silver spoon, a silk ribbon, and even a pony. Each attempt is met with more wailing. Finally, the baby's older brother steps in. Eschewing material objects, he simply picks the baby up, kisses him, and cuddles him, proving that human connection is the ultimate soothener.
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