
Reach for this book when your child is grappling with a shift in their family structure or expressing anxiety about where they belong. While the story centers on the foster care system, its emotional core speaks to any pre-teen feeling adrift or misunderstood by the adults in their lives. It is a poignant tool for validating feelings of isolation while gently moving toward hope. Eleven-year-old Cal Lavender is thrust into a group home after her mother suffers a mental health crisis. Through Cal's eyes, readers explore the complexities of the social welfare system, the bonds formed with 'found family,' and the resilience required to navigate loss. The book handles heavy themes with a light, realistic touch that avoids melodrama, making it an excellent choice for mature middle-grade readers who appreciate honest, character-driven narratives.
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Sign in to write a reviewCharacters navigate life in a group home where rules are sometimes circumvented for survival.
The book deals directly with parental mental illness and the foster care system. The approach is secular and grounded in realism. The resolution is not a fairy-tale ending where the mother is magically cured; instead, it is a hopeful but realistic acceptance of Cal's new reality and the stability of her foster placement.
A 10 to 12-year-old who enjoys stories about 'found families' or who is personally experiencing a transition in their living situation. It is also perfect for a child with high empathy who wants to understand the lives of peers in different circumstances.
Parents should be prepared to discuss mental illness. There is a scene involving a character's 'secret' stash and the reality of being moved between homes that may require a check-in to ensure the child feels secure. A parent might choose this book after hearing their child say, 'Why can't things just go back to the way they were?' or after a child expresses fear about a family member's health or stability.
Younger readers (9) will focus on the friendships and the quirky household rules. Older readers (12) will better grasp the nuance of Cal's mother's condition and the systemic frustrations of social services.
Unlike many 'problem novels,' Wolfson avoids making the system the villain. It focuses on the internal life of the child and the small, human moments that create a sense of home, even when that home is temporary.
Eleven-year-old Cal Lavender is placed in a group home run by the eccentric but caring 'Knitting Lady' after her mother is hospitalized for mental illness. The story follows Cal as she navigates the unwritten rules of her new environment, bonds with four other foster children, and waits for a mother who may not be able to care for her.
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