
A parent might reach for this book when their child is anxious about a long summer vacation that separates them from their best friends. The story follows Liza Gold, who is convinced her two-month, cross-country family road trip will be a nightmare of boring sights and no friends. This light, humorous book explores common middle-grade worries like FOMO (fear of missing out) and the frustrations of family travel, while gently showing how an open mind can turn a dreaded experience into a fun adventure. It’s an ideal, reassuring read for kids 8-12 that normalizes their feelings and models resilience and the joy of discovering new things (and new sides of yourself) when pushed outside a comfort zone.
The book's central conflict revolves around social anxiety, specifically the fear of missing out (FOMO) and the stress of being separated from a core friend group. The approach is direct, secular, and handled with a light touch. Liza's feelings are validated, and the resolution is entirely hopeful, showing that personal growth and strong friendships are not mutually exclusive.
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Sign in to write a reviewThis is for a child, ages 9-12, who is facing an upcoming separation from their friend group due to a family vacation, a move, or even just attending a different summer camp. It's especially suited for a child who tends to pre-judge new situations negatively and needs a gentle model for how to find the good in an unwanted change.
No preparation is needed; this book can be read cold. Its themes are straightforward and presented in a very accessible way. A parent could optionally use it as a conversation starter about their own past experiences with travel or being away from friends. A parent announces plans for a long summer trip, and their child's immediate reaction is despair, anger, or tears. The child's core complaint is, "I'll miss my friends!" or "It's going to be so boring without them!" The child may be moping, protesting, or refusing to participate in planning.
A younger reader (8-9) will connect most with the humor of the roadside attractions and the relatable frustration of being stuck with family. An older reader (10-12) will better grasp the nuances of the friendship dynamics, Liza's growing self-awareness, and the theme of developing an identity separate from one's friend group.
Among many books about friendship, this one's focus on the very common but under-represented scenario of a dreaded family vacation makes it uniquely relatable. Unlike stories about more dramatic events like moving, this book tackles a low-stakes, temporary separation, making it a perfect tool for normalizing everyday anxieties. Its light, humorous tone and epistolary elements make the emotional journey feel authentic and fun.
Liza Gold is being forced on a two-month cross-country road trip with her parents and two other families, separating her from her two best friends for the entire summer. Convinced it will be the worst experience of her life, filled with embarrassing tourist traps, she documents her misery in emails and letters. As the trip progresses, however, Liza slowly begins to open up to the experience. She makes a new friend, discovers surprising things about her family, and realizes that adventure can be found in unexpected places, and that her friendships are strong enough to survive the distance.
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