
Reach for this book when your middle schooler comes home feeling invisible or when their long term friendship suddenly feels like a competition. It is an essential choice for children grappling with the confusing shift from childhood playmates to the complex social hierarchies of the pre-teen years. The story follows Delores as she navigates the sting of being outshone by a flashy new friend while neglecting the people who truly care for her. Through relatable school scenarios, it explores the heavy weight of jealousy and the courage required to admit when you have been a bad friend. It provides a realistic roadmap for rebuilding self-confidence after being treated like a second choice. Parents will appreciate how the book validates the painful reality of social rejection while offering a hopeful path toward genuine connection and self-acceptance.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe protagonist makes some poor choices in how she treats her old friends.
The book handles social exclusion and emotional manipulation in a direct, secular, and highly realistic manner. There is no physical danger, but the emotional stakes of being 'dumped' by a friend are treated with the seriousness children feel in those moments. The resolution is hopeful but grounded in the reality that trust must be earned back.
An 11-year-old girl who is currently 'in between' friend groups or feels like she has to change her personality, clothes, or interests to stay relevant in her social circle.
Read cold. The social dynamics are straightforward and will be familiar to anyone who survived middle school. A parent might see their child being bossed around on a playdate or notice their child suddenly criticizing their own appearance or hobbies to match a peer.
Younger readers (ages 8-9) may focus on the 'mean girl' behavior as a cautionary tale, while older readers (11-12) will better grasp the nuance of Delores's own complicity and the guilt of leaving others behind.
Unlike many 'mean girl' books that focus solely on the bully, Medearis turns the lens on the protagonist's own character growth and the importance of being a loyal friend herself.
Delores is thrilled to be befriended by the popular and charismatic new girl, but she soon realizes that being in the inner circle comes at a high price. As she is manipulated and treated as an accessory rather than a person, Delores must confront her own choices, specifically how she sidelined her loyal old friends to chase status. The story focuses on the fallout of these social choices and the difficult process of making amends.
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