
Reach for this book when your child is struggling to navigate peer pressure or is being manipulated by a 'friend' who makes them feel uncomfortable. It is a vital resource for children who are balancing the desire to fit in at school with the pride they feel for their family heritage. The story follows Yoon, a young Korean immigrant, who is tricked into giving her precious jade bracelet to an older girl in exchange for a turn on a jump rope. It captures the heavy feelings of shame and the courage required to set boundaries. Recommended for ages 5-9, this book provides a safe space to discuss the difference between true friendship and social bullying, while celebrating the strength found in one's cultural identity.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book addresses social bullying and manipulation directly. The approach is realistic and secular. The resolution is hopeful and empowering, showing a child taking agency to correct a mistake.
An elementary student who is 'too nice' and often finds themselves being talked into things they don't want to do, or a child from an immigrant background who feels their cultural items make them stand out in a way they aren't yet comfortable with.
Read this with the child to observe their reaction to the older girl's manipulation. It can be read cold, but be prepared to pause when the trade happens to ask what the child thinks Yoon should do. A parent might see their child come home without a personal item or overhear a 'friend' speaking bossily to their child, prompting a need to discuss boundaries.
Younger children (5-6) focus on the loss of the 'pretty' bracelet. Older children (7-9) will recognize the social hierarchy at play and the sting of the older girl's gaslighting.
Unlike many 'sharing' books, this validates the child's right to say 'no' and highlights how some friendships are actually unhealthy power imbalances.
Yoon is a young Korean immigrant who receives a traditional jade bracelet from her mother for her birthday, though she secretly wished for a jump rope. At school, an older girl manipulates Yoon, claiming the bracelet is 'magic' and convincing Yoon to trade it for a turn with a jump rope. Yoon immediately feels the weight of her decision and the loss of her connection to her grandmother. After a period of internal struggle and a confrontation, Yoon eventually stands up for herself, reclaims her property, and learns to value her own heritage over the desire for superficial peer acceptance.
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