You Go First

Reach for this book when your child is hesitant to step out of their comfort zone or struggles with the social pressure of wanting to please a friend while feeling scared. It is particularly useful for children who experience a flutter in their tummy before trying something new, such as a tall slide or a busy playground. Through the relatable characters of Duck and Cat, the story explores the nuances of peer pressure, the bravery required to admit fear, and the beauty of mutual support. Appropriate for ages 4 to 8, this story models how to navigate social dynamics when two friends have different comfort levels. A parent might choose this book to normalize feelings of anxiety and to show that being a good friend doesn't mean you have to do everything first or perfectly. It provides a gentle, humorous opening to discuss how to say no, how to wait for a friend, and how to tackle big obstacles at your own pace.