Ruby and the Rubbish Bin

Reach for this book when your child expresses deep-seated feelings of worthlessness, refers to themselves as 'trash' or 'rubbish,' or seems defeated by peer rejection. It is a powerful tool for children who have internalized the cruelty of bullies and have lost sight of their own human value. The story follows Ruby, a young girl who feels so invisible and unwanted that she identifies more with a rubbish bin than a person, until a kind lunch lady helps her rediscover her self-worth. Written by a child psychotherapist, the book uses evocative imagery to address heavy emotions like self-hate and hopelessness, providing a safe framework for children ages 5 to 11 to discuss their internal world. Parents will find it an invaluable resource for moving a child from a place of shame toward self-respect and the courage to set boundaries.