
A parent should reach for this book when their older child is struggling with feelings of jealousy or being overshadowed by a new or younger sibling. Arthur, a relatable and kind-hearted aardvark, is adjusting to life with his new baby brother, Pal. Everyone thinks Pal is perfect, but Arthur sees all the ways the new baby makes his life harder, from getting all the attention to drooling on his homework. This early chapter book poignantly captures the frustration and anger that can accompany sibling rivalry, while wrapping it in gentle humor. It's an excellent choice for normalizing these big, confusing emotions and showing a child that it is possible to love a sibling even when you feel annoyed by them.
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Sign in to write a reviewThe book directly addresses sibling jealousy and a child's negative feelings, including a brief, angry wish for the sibling to disappear. The approach is secular and realistic within its anthropomorphic animal world. The resolution is entirely hopeful, reinforcing family love and the security of the older child's place in the family.
This is for the 6 to 8 year old who has recently become an older sibling and is struggling past the initial excitement into the day to day realities of sharing parents and space. It's particularly for the child who feels a sense of injustice or that the new baby can do no wrong.
Parents may want to preview the page where Arthur wishes Pal would disappear. It's a key moment that can be used to open a conversation about how anger can make us think things we don't really mean. Otherwise, the book can be read cold; its themes are universal and gently handled. The parent has heard their child say, "It's not fair!" or "You love the baby more than me." The parent might observe their older child acting out for attention or showing uncharacteristic anger and frustration directed at the younger sibling or the parents.
A younger reader (6-7) will connect directly with Arthur's feelings of unfairness and be satisfied by the happy, loving resolution. An older reader (8-9), who may be reading independently, can appreciate the more subtle humor and the internal conflict Arthur experiences, recognizing the complexity of loving and being annoyed by family at the same time.
As an early chapter book, it offers more depth and plot than a typical picture book on the new sibling theme. It moves beyond the simple 'new baby arrives' narrative to explore the ongoing adjustment period. Marc Brown's universally beloved Arthur character makes the difficult feelings of jealousy feel safe, normal, and ultimately solvable through love and empathy.
Arthur is initially excited about his new baby brother, Pal, but his feelings quickly turn to frustration and jealousy as his parents and friends dote on the "perfect" baby. Arthur feels ignored and annoyed, especially when Pal's baby antics (like drooling on homework) are met with amusement instead of discipline. Arthur's resentment builds until he wishes Pal would disappear. In a moment of panic, Pal does go missing (he crawls off on his own). Arthur, filled with remorse and worry, realizes how much he loves his brother and helps find him, cementing their new sibling bond.
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