
A parent should reach for this book when their child is preparing for, or struggling with, the arrival of a new baby. This classic story features Franklin the turtle, who is initially thrilled about becoming a big brother. However, once baby Harriet arrives, he finds himself feeling left out and jealous as the baby becomes the center of attention. The book gently validates these big, complicated feelings, reassuring older siblings that they are normal and that their parents' love hasn't diminished. It's an excellent tool for children ages 3 to 7, offering comfort and a model for how to navigate this major family transition with love and understanding.
The primary topic is sibling jealousy and the emotional adjustment to a new family member. The approach is direct, secular, and gentle. The story validates the older sibling's negative feelings of being displaced and ignored. The resolution is entirely hopeful, reinforcing parental love and the child's secure place in the family.
Your experience helps other parents find the right book.
Sign in to write a reviewA 3 to 6-year-old child who is about to become an older sibling or is currently struggling to adapt to a new baby in the home. It is particularly suited for a child who feels like their world has been turned upside down and they are no longer the center of their parents' universe.
This book can be read cold, as its message is clear and gentle. A parent might want to be prepared to pause on the pages where Franklin's friends ignore him to coo over the baby, as this is a very specific and painful moment for an older sibling. It's a great opportunity to ask, "How do you think that made Franklin feel?" The parent sees their older child acting out for attention, regressing in behaviors like potty training, or directly stating things like, "You love the baby more than me," or "I wish the baby would go away."
A younger child (3-4) will identify with the basic feelings of being left out when a parent is busy with the baby. An older child (5-7) will grasp the more complex themes of a changing identity, the responsibilities of being older, and the pride that comes with their new role as a helpful big sibling.
Among the many new-sibling books, this one stands out because it uses a beloved and trusted character, Franklin, to normalize the negative feelings. Instead of just focusing on the joy of a new baby, it dedicates significant time to validating the older sibling's jealousy and sadness, making it a particularly effective tool for creating empathy and starting a conversation.
Franklin the turtle is excited that his family is expecting a new baby. When his sister, Harriet, is born, his initial excitement gives way to jealousy and loneliness. His parents are busy, his friends are more interested in the baby than in him, and he feels ignored. After trying to get attention and retreating into his shell, his parents reassure him of their love. Franklin then discovers his unique and important role as a big brother when he is the only one who can make Harriet stop crying.
This overview was generated by AI based on the book's content and reviews, and may not capture every nuance.